Inner Tantra - The Intimate Path to Ecstasy

Partnership is just business without intimacy. Has your love relationship turned into a business contract? Sure, you can work, feed the children, and talk about your problems with your lover, but is that really enough? Many of us want more than technical support from our life partner.

 It gets back to the old saying, "Do you live to work or work to live?" Your love relationship should not be reduced to a chore list that you share with your lover just to get through the week.

Where's the passion? Where's the yearning? Where is the kind of love that you crave more than food? This is the nectar of love that connects lovers even when they are apart.

Remember the look in your lover's eyes, the smell of your lover's hair or taste of your lover's sweat? Love like this is possible for those who value it and are willing to step outside their own limitations.

It is a matter of opening your heart to vulnerability, compassion, honesty, and selflessness. Society doesn't teach us this kind of simple and profound love; however, it is possible to learn.

The fine art of true connection starts within you. You have to be intimate with yourself. You have to be willing to be honest with yourself and even willing to be wrong to shatter your old patterns that are not bringing intimacy into your life.

  Patterns of victimization, self-righteousness, fear, anger, lack of healthy boundaries, powerlessness, projection of past pain into present reality, and so many other wounds that keep us from truly opening our hearts to real love.

Your pain makes you believe that real love is unattainable. As long as you believe in your own limitations, you will continue to limit your reality. As you release your old limitations, you will attract more clarity than you can imagine.

Whatever you focus on gets bigger. So, as you become more conscious of your own hidden beliefs and expectations, you will see how you have created all the situations of your life.

As you become more impeccable with your words and thoughts, you will have a more ecstatic life. Your dreams and intentions will manifest most effectively when you consistently hold your entire focus on what you truly want to create.

You are responsible for you what you create. Most people create their lives from the unconscious and subconscious wounds that they have lived for many lifetimes.

Even the pain of this life alone makes most of us believe in loss, lack of love, betrayal, and distrust of the world. Most of us have experienced a lot of pain and that pain has validated our negative belief systems. Those negative beliefs create more loss scenarios that further validate our experience of victimization.

This pattern can be healed by seeing how the negative attraction system operates. Once you see your limiting beliefs you will want to change them. This is the Law of Attraction and it always works. By knowing yourself, you can consciously make choices that attract a reality with more love and intimacy.

The greatest relationship challenge is intimacy. To attract intimacy in relationship, you must first learn how to be intimate with yourself.

 This means being willing to see all of yourself in a bigger perspective. Once you learn new techniques to see your deeper patterns and intentions, you can apply the same methods to better see your partner and anyone else using your new lens.

 By seeing yourself and the others more clearly, you will be able to make more positive and conscious choices to create healthier relationships that will vitalize your life and bring more you more prosperity.
The desired outcome of all this transformational inner work is to experience as much ecstasy as possible within yourself. Then, you can share that ecstasy with your partner and everyone else you encounter everyday.

 Ecstasy can be defined as 'a state of blissful union with Source.' Your actual experience of ecstasy magnetizes more ecstatic people and situations into your world. The idea is to maintain the ecstatic state for as many hours as possible each day. The state of prolonged ecstasy then becomes your reality.

Developing clarity on the inside helps to manifest external clarity in relationships and in every other aspect of your life. What you are not conscious of within yourself still creates your daily reality. Make the choice to look deeper within to see who you really are and why you are creating the patterns that either brings you pain or pleasure. Once you see your own truth, you will want to change what is not working.

Dr. Vito Hemphill has been a practicing alternative chiropractic physician in Santa Fe since 1985 with a practice specializing in the relationship between the subtle bodies (emotional, mental, higher mental, astral, causal, etheric) and physical dis-ease.

He uses his skills as a medical intuitive to access information from the Higher Self of others for their healing. Vito has found that over 85% of all physical issues he treats, start as imbalances on the subtle body levels.

His new book, 'Four Faces in the Mirror: Seeing All of Yourself' teaches readers simple practical exercises to increase intimacy and self-awareness which translates into more ecstasy with your partner! His book, DVD, speaking engagements, and his signature '90 Days To Ecstasy Programs' are all intended to help his audience make conscious positive changes in their lives. This Inner Tantra System is a collection of Vito's best tools from 25 years of clinical practice.

His '90 Days To Ecstasy Programs' allow you to gain more intimacy and ecstasy in a modular three month telephone based coaching program. There are programs for both individuals and couples that are done via private phone sessions of at least one hour each to ask questions about your individual issues and process.
Please visit [http://www.innertantra.org] for details and sign up.

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